Relationships
How is Expressed

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When the two humans have so much at stake in the relationship, it is going to include times of frustration, misunderstanding, confusion, and disappointment.

We also tend to attribute motives to other people that are foreign to our own purposes, which can create a sense of mystery or bewilderment.
The myth of hatred is propagated by the fact that some people can exaggerate their sense of frustration in search of sympathy. At work people complain about their problems at home, at home, they complain about issues at work.

Only you can choose to receive healing for your emotional wounds and decide to live free.

Why Men are Cautious Entering into a Relationship?

POSSIBLE ROOT CAUSES:

Fear, which is not necessarily unfounded. It is no surprise that men’s failures and rejections exacerbate the anxiety, and it’s natural to hate what we fear.

Guilt, in women towards their mothers with whom they compete for the father’s affection and inadequacy. They can never quite measure up to the father’s standards. Some men become extreme and virulent misogynists (a person who dislikes, despises, or is strongly prejudiced against women). Develop early in life as an experience of an abusive or negligent mother, sister, teacher – can plant a seed deep down in their brains’ subcortical matter.

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HOW IS EXPRESSED:

  • He will make promises to women and often fail to keep them. With men, on the other hand, he will almost always keep his word.
  • He will be late for appointments and dates with women, but be quite punctual with men.
  • He is extremely competitive, especially with women. If a woman does better than him socially or professionally, he feels terrible. If a man does better, he may have mixed feelings about it, but he can look at the situation objectively.
  • He will cheat on women he is dating or in a relationship with. Monogamy is the last thing he feels he owes a woman.
  • He may suddenly disappear from a relationship without ending it. Still, He may come back three months later with an explanation designed to lure the woman back in.

Women hold an immense amount of emotional power over men.

 

Basically, women look for men’s love, while men look for women’s approval. Not getting it hurts like hell.

Both men and women feel the same desire for love, sex, and connection, but the pressure to earn that falls squarely on men’s shoulders and often times stays there.

It may not be easy, but it isn’t impossible

Points to Remember

  • How women will tell men to find courage when they have problems, thus encouraging men to suppress things and not talk about them, which is what they say they don’t want. Yet when they have issues and want support, it’s different.
  • How they often don’t tell you straight what they want, but instead brood when you don’t give it to them. Men do this, but usually, it’s over something they’re worried about telling a woman. Still, women do it over trivial stuff sometimes.
    • Herd mentality – women, often think in groups, I guess the social aspect is more critical than in men.
    •How, with a lot of women, nothing is ever their fault. When it is, they can think up elaborate ways of trying to make it yours or someone else’s fault as to why *they* acted in a certain way or did something.
  • How they expect men to share emotions, but they only want to see their positive ones, they never want a man to break down and appear weak.
  • How if you argue they’ll sulk and brood until you back down and practically beg for forgiveness even when it’s them in the wrong. The reason? Because you made them feel bad, you have to apologize for that regardless of what they did wrong, the apology has to come from the man.
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Only you can choose to receive healing for your emotional wounds and decide to live free.

Happy trails.

 

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